The
Way You Wear Your Hat
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By Dr. Carol Fleming
You
probably didnt know that you could read heads. But youve
probably noticed
Head
carriage is a profound communicator of attitude that speaks to us
nonverbally. You can influence the image you project by becoming
conscious of your head carriage. For example, would you like to
appear more mature and dignified?
- Find
a hard cover book (not too big, not too small)
- Stand
in front of a mirror and balance the book on top of your
head
- Now
stretch your body up, lengthening your neck, keeping your
shoulders down and relaxed: dont just stick your chin
up. Increase the distance between your ears and shoulders.
Watch yourself in the mirror so you dont do something
weird with your posture. You are now erect and looking proud.
- Turn
your head slowly from side to side, keeping the chin line
even. Take a few steps, side to side, front to back, keeping
the head even and the book flat. Now, try walking around
maintaining your posture. Try to have some normal arm swing.
Yes, I know it will feel funny at first. It is different.
- Sit
and talk on the phone with a friend and try to keep the
book balanced. You will probably discover that you do a
lot of head bobbing when you talk, because the darned book
will slide off your head. Thatll teach ya!
- Practice
your head control with the book until youve gotten
the feel of it. Then take off the book and see if you can
maintain the posture from body memory.
- Start
noticing how other people hold their heads. Youll
find that you will form an opinion of their sense of personal
worth, pride, health and vigor by their head carriage.
- Soon
youll just have to think book to straighten
up when you want to.
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© 2004 Dr. Carol Fleming. All Rights Reserved.
Permission to reprint with author and website acknowledgement.
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